Advice from a Mum Who’s Realising What She’d Do Differently. "Selfies on the sofa because we can" When I had Amy, and again when I had Kyla, it never crossed my mind that one day, those perfect, beautiful babies I held so close—washed, changed, winded, nursed, swaddled and soothed—would no longer need me to be their full-time mummy. As the years flew by and my role as "mum" began to evolve, it still didn’t cross my mind. Not really. Not until Amy received her first university acceptance letter at just 15 years old. That’s when it hit me: My eldest child was about to fly the nest. They grow up and leave home. They really do leave you—and the life they’ve known since birth. They just… go. What’s worse is, they love it. Of course they do. I loved it too. Everyone moves out eventually. But why hadn’t I prepared for this moment? Why didn’t I start cherishing our time more before my first chick decided to spread her wings? No one warned me what this part would feel like....
Celebrating the love and selflessness of bonus parents—those who raise children they didn’t create but love like their own. This past Sunday, July 27th, 2025, was on a list I found on google when searching for specific days we celebrate. It is the date for Parents’ Day—at least according to the internet. I have since discovered the official Parents’ Day, as established by the United Nations in 2012, is actually June 1st, every year. ✏️ I thought about saving this article for next year but decided I love the theme and message too much so I chose to go ahead and publish. Even though it is (or is not) parents day I realised we already have mothers day and fathers day so I’m taking this moment to celebrate something incredibly important: bonus parents . "For a large part of my life my maternal grandparents supported my mum in raising us. They will forever be my “Bonus Blessing’s” You may not know or are possibly wondering what’s a “Bonus Parent”? Here's what I'm wonderin, if...